Saturday, February 28, 2009

Sitting On The Bench...

Life has no boundaries and sets no limit;
rather, we set limits for ourselves.
When you want something enough, set your mind to it and keep trying until you reach your goal.
I have learned that no goal should be taught of as impossible. With perseverance, hard work and time, any goal can be achieved.


Jadikan kepayahan hidup itu satu kesenangan
Jadikan kesenangan hidup itu satu ingatan indah disebalik kepayahan
Jadikan hari semalam itu suatu pengajaran
Jadikan hari ini suatu cara untuk maju ke esok hari
Jadikan hari esok lebih baik daripada semalam, hari ini dan minggu lepas.

Hari tanpa keperitan ianya bukanlah dipanggil kehidupan
Hari yang bahagia sepatutnya dijadikan kenangan
Bukanlah kebanggaan yang sering diungkit-ungkit
Hari yang susah haruslah dijadikan teladan
Supaya esok, minggu depan dan masa hadapan boleh kita ramal.

Duniaku bergolak namun aku cuba tabah menghadapinya
Walau betapa susah pun rintangan yang dihadapi
Aku tidak benarkan setan si penjahanam pengaruh mindaku
Rintangan yang tlah ku hadapi dan bakal dihadapi akanku jadikan pendorong masa depan
Walau betapa payah sekalipun aku takkan putus asa
Kerna putus asa itu sifat si penjahanam

Be happy while you're living...

"Be happy while you're living, for you're a long time dead." - Scottish Proverb

Everyone says, "How the time flies." The days go by and they are years, and the years finally become our whole life. Each daily portion can be wasted, or it can be a pleasure, before it is gone forever. If a bedtime review of the day concludes that we were too stressed, too busy, didn't accomplish anything, didn't have any fun, then it has been another lost piece of precious life.

Perhaps we are putting off our enjoyment until we have more time, or money, or some other improved condition. The trouble with that is that it might never happen, or it may be too long in coming. It's so important to accept this time, this very minute, as something of tremendous value that will very soon be gone forever. There are many ways to ensure that we make the best of our time here on earth.

In our daily routine let's include time to enjoy others and thus ourselves. Look and wonder at the trees, fields and mountains, smell the flowers, hear the birds, and watch the clouds in the sky.

"This world, after all our science and sciences, is still a miracle; wonderful, magical and more, to whosoever will think of it." - Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881)

Face your problems bravely, confidently, and improve on your situation, no matter what state it be in. Be good to feel good. Be active and improve your mind. Laugh, relax, and sleep well.

Life is mostly froth and bubble;
Two things stand like stone:
Kindness in another's trouble,
Courage in our own. - Adam Gordon (1833-1870)


Someone turned to me and asked
"How many friends have you?"
Why 10 or 20 friends I believe
And began to named a few...

A blessed one you are
To have so many friends
But think of what you're saying...
A friend is just not someone
To whom you say "Hello"

A friend is a tender shoulder
On which to softly cry
A well to pour your troubles down
And raise your spirits high

A friend is a hand to pull you up
From darkness and despair...
When all your other "so called" friends
Have helped to put you there

A true friend is an ally
Who can't be moved or bought
A voice to keep your name alive
When others have forgot

But most of all a friend has a true heart
For from the hearts of friends
There comes the greatest love of all!

So think about all this
For every word is true
And once again answer please...
How many friends have you?

After much thought I answered
I really only have just one
"It's You!"

A Friend Is Always Special
Because Friends Love You
Just Because You're You!

-Author Unknown

friends among the most important things in my life....
i cant live without friends...
i wonder how come someone can be happy without friends...???
not everything can be done on your own...
sometimes you will need a help...
so...that is what friends mean..
share everything together.....
for all my friends...thank you so much (",)

my RaInBoW..

rainbow of happiness

The law of giving says that whatever you give comes back to you multiplied.
So give appreciation, give compliments, give love, n multitude of it will come your way.

what i wish for : my life will become a gift to all who are around me..

its you..

Sound straight from the twilight
Has me up all night
I can't fall asleep 'cause I keep thinking of you
And I saw a shadow outside my window and it's you.

All my sorrows flew away
Hush, keep quiet, hear me say
I don't ever want you to go
Please stay
With the moonlight dancing free
And there's no one but you and me
There's no reason to go astray
Please stay.
Making up a story
It's the way you're looking at me
If you think that this is funny, it's just you.

Try and think about it,
If you're heart is closed don't lock it,
Keep your keys back in your pocket,
Think this through.

Please stay with me
Just stay with me
and I will take you to Foreverland
Just stay

Sunday, February 15, 2009


today i would like to share about falling in love. i'm sure that all of you have been falling i love with someone.
there is an article that i got from internet. it is about falling in love..

Falling in love and love is are two quite different feeling. Falling in love can be either a flash of emotion or a first step towards love.

Falling in love is strong instinctive attraction to the person of the other sex. In case it's mutual and both lovers will work at their relationship one day that feeling can grow up into love. Falling in love is crazy, it very physical, it's when knees are getting weak and temperature rises, love is calm, comfortable and mental.

You have to do nothing to fall in love and often there's either nothing you can do to stop falling in love. it's very illogical: you suffer from splashes of emotions, doubts, cannot fully control yourself and it's all because of a person you usually almost don't know. When we fall in love nature shows all it's power on us. Sometimes it even goes against our sense when we understand that we can't expect nothing good from these relationships that it's the wrong person but still can o nothing about ourselves.

Falling in love is the call of our sex but the object is instinctually chosen according to our ideals, dreams although we may not realize it. We usually fall in love with the appearance of the person, with the way he or she walks, the way he or she talks. Sometimes we impute to our object of love some illusional, ideal qualities and the more we get to know that person the less we fall for him or her. That's when feeling disappears eve faster than it appeared.

The more two person get to know each other, the more comfortable they get the less shap, bright and exciting the feeling gets. Some couple continue their relationship and get married in the end some fall apart. It's reasonable to say that a second pair of slipper by the bed and one more toothbrush in the bathroom is the end of that crazy falling in love but it also can be the beginning of something more serious.

Different people fall in love more or less often than other. Some are switching partners enjoying crazy emotions which never turn with them into a real love. Some may fall in love for a short time while having some permanent partner they love, this can even ruin some stable relationship. Some can claim to be in love with two people at the same time. These are usually two very different people so that one can't choose which type is better but can neither afford to take both. In the center of love there's always only one person.

We may call falling in love some kind of a temporary illness both mental and physical and won't be very wrong. Some will say that it's destructive, selfish, possesive, blind and give falling in love many other unpleasant definitions. But have those people ever been in love? Because if they have they would know that it differs from any other illness in on very essential way- it can be very pleasant. Peopla nowadays often turn to antidepressants and drugs because it makes them feel better in the first case and makes them high in the second.

Falling in love is the most natural and the least harmless kind of doping. Yes, it's not mural, it never looks in the future, in fact it has no future but it gives life some spirit of freshness and youthfulness.


this is another story that i read last night..
written by Norliza baharom.. i got it from reader digest

the old bicycle is about a mother who always sacrifice and always want the best for her children..
the writer grew in very poor living.Her father was a rattan collector. He went to forest and collect rotten as much as he can and sell it to nearby furniture manufacturer...

one day, her father went to the forest with his motorcycle. So, the writer thought there no way to go to school which far from her home. The writer and her sister imaging that they can play at backyard pond. suddenly. her mother appeared and ask them to get dressed. their mother will send them to school no matter what. The writer and her sister wondering how their mother will send them to school. Gently, her mother said that she will send them with the bicycle which really old.

So they have no choice. Slowly they climbed up on the back carrier. it was too small for both of them. as the result half of her bottom hung in midair with no support. The bicycle was very terrible, the tyres were almost flat. everyone they passed were turned to see where the noise coming from.The writer was very ashamed and she covered her face with her hand.

twenty five minutes later, they arrived at the school, quickly they jumped off from the bicycle and they said that it would be the last time they riding that bicycle. they rather walk to school in future.

And then she kissed her mother's hand and she tasted salt. her mother sweating. suddenly she felt so sad, she don't understand why her mother have to do the hard way instead staying at home and rest. Then her mother said, she sorry for the trouble and she don't want he children ending up like her. so she will as hard as she can to give education for her children.

Now, the writer work as a librarian after earning a degree in english literature.

concept of Islam

The oneness of the Divine Being requires that all submission must be to Him. There is nothing in the people’s mind or in their lives, which is not subject to God’s authority. The oneness of God means that there is only One Being who has the right to set values and standards for people requiring them to submit to Him, obey Him, and implement the legislation He had enacted for them in all the affairs of their lives. There is only one faith, namely, pure submission to God alone, which is acceptable to Him.

When we said that the only true faith acceptable to God is self-surrender to Him, we mean true Islam. This is not merely a claim to be stated, a flag to be raised or a detached academic concept to be discussed which does not stir hearts or minds, or even a set of acts of worship such as Prayer, fasting and pilgrimage. This is not the sort of Islam, which God describes as the only faith acceptable to Him. True Islam means complete obedience, total submission to God and the implementation of His revelations in human life, as stated in the Quran.

Islam also means the oneness of the Divine Being who is the Eternal Master of all. People of earlier revelations used to confuse the person of God and the person of Jesus Christ. They also confused God’s will and that of Christ’s. They disagreed among themselves so violently that they fought and killed one another on numerous occasions. God, therefore, made the reasons for these disputes clear for both the people of earlier revelations and for the Muslim community.

Their disputes did not arise out of ignorance of the truth. They had been given certain knowledge of God’s oneness and the fact that He is the only Lord in the universe. They were also given the knowledge they needed about human nature and true submission to God. They simply disagreed ‘through mutual aggression’ when they abandoned the course of justice embodied in the faith and the law of God revealed to them.

major sins in ISLAM

The major sins are those acts which have been forbidden by Allah in the Quran and by His Messenger (SAW) in the Sunnah (practise of the Prophet), and which have been made clear by the actions of of the first righteous generation of Muslims, the Companions of the Prophet (SAW).

Allah Most High says in His Glorious Book:

If you avoid the major (part) of what you have been forbidden (to do), We will cancel out for you your (other) evil deeds and will admit you (to Paradise) with a noble entry. (al-Nisa 4:31)
Thus by this verse, Allah Most High has guaranteed the Garden of Paradise to those who avoid the major sins. And Allah Most High also says:
Those who avoid the greatest of sins and indecencies, and forgive when they are angry (al-Shra 42:37) Those who avoid the greatest sins and indecencies, except for oversights, (will find that) surely your Lord is ample in forgiveness. (Al-Najm 53:32)
The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "The five [daily] prayers, Friday to Friday, and Ramadan to Ramadan make atonement for what has happenned since the previous one when major sins have been avoided." It is therefore very important to determine exactly what the greatest vices, technically called "the major sins" (Kaba'ir), are, in order that Muslims should avoid them.

Allah Most High says: Surely, Allah does not forgive associating anything with Him, and He forgives whatever is other than that to whomever He wills. (al-Nisa 4:48 and 116)

01. Associating anything with Allah

02. Murder
03. Practicing magic
04. Not Praying
05. Not paying Zakat
06. Not fasting on a Day of Ramadan without excuse
07. Not performing Hajj, while being able to do so
08. Disrespect to parents
09. Abandoning relatives
10. Fornication and Adultery
11. Homosexuality(sodomy)
12. Interest(Riba)
13. Wrongfully consuming the property of an orphan
14. Lying about Allah and His Messenger
15. Running away from the battlefield
16. A leader's deceiving his people and being unjust to them
17. Pride and arrogance
18. Bearing false witness
19. Drinking Khamr (wine)
20. Gambling
21. Slandering chaste women
22. Stealing from the spoils of war
23. Stealing
24. Highway Robbery
25. Taking false oath
26. Oppression
27. Illegal gain
28. Consuming wealth acquired unlawfully
29. Committing suicide
30. Frequent lying
31. Judging unjustly
32. Giving and Accepting bribes
33. Woman's imitating man and man's imitating woman
34. Being cuckold
35. Marrying a divorced woman in order to make her lawful for the husband
36. Not protecting oneself from urine
37. Showing-off
38. Learning knowledge of the religion for the sake of this world and concealing that knowledge
39. Betrayal of trust
40. Recounting favors
41. Denying Allah's Decree
42. Listening (to) people's private conversations
43. Carrying tales
44. Cursing
45. Breaking contracts
46. Believing in fortune-tellers and astrologers
47. A woman's bad conduct towards her husband
48. Making statues and pictures
49. Lamenting, wailing, tearing the clothing, and doing other things of this sort when an affliction befalls
50. Treating others unjustly of new thing in my life :)

today is my first time to log in to the blog and today I create my own blog.. what a special day for me..hehe..I hope my blog will have my own fan soon..hikhik..epy blogging to all : )